We listen many people specially men by saying this
statement that hell is occupied mostly by the women. Yes it is a right
statement because in a Hadith it is mentioned. A Hadith which is narrated by
Hazrat Usama Bin Zaid (RA) it
is said by Hazrat Mohammad (PBUH) that:-
"I stood at the
door of Paradise and I found that the overwhelming majority of those who
entered therein were that of poor persons and the wealthy persons were detained
to get into that. The denizens of Hell were commanded to get into Hell, and I
stood upon the door of Fire and the majority amongst them who entered there was
that of women.”
To get instant all of us will probably claim that
Ahadith teach that the majority of the particular dwellers of Hell will be
women. Even though this can be legitimate, there should be absolutely no
contention on this subject. One of the two had to be a lot more throughout Hell,
either the particular men or perhaps the women. That can be just as in a way
that women are classified as the greater part. When men had been almost all
after those individuals could have wondered ‘why usually are men almost all? ’
It's so not any ‘flaw’ of Islam that women will probably style almost all but
instead the particular downside in the approach gentleman thinks about what
exactly is mentioned.
Second to consider that it is something gives men
fineness on the women is quite absurd. Men exactly who may well boast his / her
fineness in addition to deficiency guiding throughout pursuing the deen and
become sinful can be throughout Hell together with everyone else. One has for
you to be worried about themselves rather than stressing in relation to people.
Can this kind of gentleman after that place kids finger from his / her mommy,
sis, wife in addition to little princess and become happy they may have any
“better chance” of being throughout Hell? Each and every gentleman in addition
to girl have been provided the opportunity just to save themselves from getting
the particular dwellers of Hell plus they must understanding this kind of
option rather than stressing the quantity of portion of women in addition to
the quantity of of men can be throughout Hell. Why not consider stressing
precisely significantly we've performed to make sure our entry ways in Jannah.
Hazrat Mohammad (PBUH) combined with the purpose in
addition has described a remedy. The reason he afforded undoubtedly are a
subject of character of women. At this point a female might claim, ‘but this
isn't legitimate as I do not have people attributes. ’ Your ex record that she
don't even have people attributes may be legitimate yet on the groundwork can
easily she claim that most the women Hazrat Mohammad (PBUH) observed throughout
Hell for this good quality did not have people 2 attributes included? The very
best method for you to carry should be to purely stay clear of cursing and also
displaying ingratitude. In addition to this kind of, you need to additionally
supply charitable organization while that helps cleanse our ill-doings. These kinds
of reasons are described simply by Hazrat Mohammad (PBUH) for the benefit and
another must give attention to acquiring their particular hereafter using the
antidote fond of us all.
Just like
when a person is affected by means of some health issues or blessed with a
number of deficiencies, he goes toward the doctor for the cure and once a treat
is advised then your person ensures to behave upon the item. So regardless of
whether we state that all women till the finish of occasion were made up of
this dynamics of cursing and showing ingratitude, the treat is mentioned and
one should utilize it. Why carry out we waste time arguing over this rather than
securing our Aakhirah?
It is
narrated by Hazrat Abdullah Ibn E Abass (RA) that:-
“The Messenger of Allah
(peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “I was shown Hell and I have
never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its
people are women.” They said, “Why, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “Because of
their ingratitude (kufr).” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allah?” He
said, “They are ungrateful to their companions (husbands) and ungrateful for
good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one
(undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from
you.” Al-Bukhaari, 1052
Most of the women will be in h hell because of their
sharp tongues. So let’s guard our tongues and save ourselves from hell. May
Allah show us the right way. (Amen)!